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Generally…
It appears that time has sped up and I have slowed down. Here we are at September second and I'm just over 33 weeks pregnant (meaning I have 7 or so left.) While time seems to be flying (cue old age jokes now) the speed at which I'm doing anything is passive, at best. I'm constantly several steps behind Joe, getting out of bed and getting dressed require grunting and a substantial break is needed after completing any task. While my sleeping habits are resembling that of my teenage days, I'm also in a losing battle with insomnia. It's actually quite cruel - everyone is telling you to sleep now because you probably never will again yet at 3 am, sleeping might as well be climbing Mount Everest.
Being informed…
Just over a week ago, Joe and I completed our Birth and Baby prep course. I was hesitant going in (the whole ignorance is bliss thing) yet aside from a few 'oh shit' moments, I came out feeling quite capable. We all know where babies come from and how they're born but the actual science behind labour is really quite fascinating. Essentially, it's like a symphony and everything is designed to work together. (Did you know that even if I were knocked unconscious during labour, my body would still know exactly what to do and most likely be able to deliver a healthy baby? Crazy!) It was a good reminder that education is empowering with a dose of que sera, sera.
The Stuff…
I started a small list awhile back of the baby essentials that I figured we should have pre-birth and aside from a few small things, we've basically checked everything off. It's interesting how different baby shopping has been for us due to our current lifestyle choices. We've been moving around the world with 6 suitcases and one small air shipment. We're renting a furnished apartment and we have no idea where we'll be heading next. We just don't physically have the space for a lot of stuff. Instead of spending the bulk of money on nursery furniture, our biggest purchase was easily the pram/stroller (thanks Mom & Dad) because we know it'll come with us. It's been good to pare down, keeping our accumulation minimal, in a world where it is so easy to buy every crazy baby thing on the market. But, I am human and there have been purchases that
Also, like shopping for anything else in Norway, choice is rather limited. Each of the baby stores in town carry almost the exact same merchandise and often, things I hear about from friends at home aren't available here. There are, however, some fantastic European brands to try out.
Names…
Joe and I have not discussed one single name. Early on we decided that we'd each create a list and at some point, we'd sit down and share our respective ideas. If we were lucky, we'd find one or more names gracing both pieces of paper (I have my doubts.) We've yet to do this. My list is created; Joe's is 'in his head' (more doubts.) I hope to have a few options agreed upon in the next few weeks but I don't think we'll formally make a decision until we meet the kid.
Speaking of the kid…
He's busy packing on the pounds and getting stronger. Things are getting cramped in there and he lets me know all.the.time. He's still moving and grooving regularly although he's gotten less spastic. He pushes really hard against my stomach creating a hard lump that protrudes out my side and I have to remind him that that is not the way out.
Mentally…
The entire idea that we are having a baby is really starting to settle in. The other night we were taking out the garbage and in the elevator Joe commented that pretty soon it won't be just the two of us anymore. At the same time we both said, "I'm a little sad about that." Clearly we're excited and happy about our expanding family yet there's something to be said about acknowledging the changes that are coming. Life has been good as a couple and life will be good as a trio but there is the teeniest bit of sadness in having to share my husband.
Also, I bought diapers yesterday. Aside from the visit to the hospital last week, that was the biggest dose of reality I've had yet.
