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I'm honoured to feature Nicole from
La Mia Vita on Expatriated today. She's one of those ladies doing this whole expat thing on her own - something I'm not sure I'd be able to do! She exudes positivity, takes lovely photos and has been taking some pretty cool weekend trips around Europe.
· Where are you from and where did you move to?
I’m from San Francisco (which I love love love and
plan on moving back to) but my parents/family live in Southern California so I
call both home.
I spent a few months in Barcelona and now I am in
Madrid for the year!
· How did you end up there and what inspired you to
make the move?
I studied abroad in Florence during college and
after that incredible experience I always knew I would live abroad again. For 6
years there was always the excuse of finishing college, then continuing school
to get my teaching credential, relationships, jobs, etc but then all those
things ended and I had no more excuses to hide behind my fear of taking the
leap.
I randomly found a master’s program for Bilingual
and Multicultural Education (perfect for my career!) here in Madrid. I got
accepted and even though I was very nervous to move abroad by myself, I knew I
couldn’t pass up the opportunity.
· What is the best part of living overseas?
I’m sure everyone has the same answer… the ability to travel!
I have a very long Europe bucket list and plan on
taking advantage of taking advantage of every free weekend, cheap flight,
airbnb and peoples couches to cross it off! :)
· What do you miss the most from home (besides friends
& family?)
You know, there isn’t much about home that I miss
besides my friends, family and just the comforts of home. I don’t even miss the
food all that much. I’d say the things I’m missing from home are just the
experiences I’m missing out on there.
Living abroad is an incredible experience but at
the same time you are trading these experiences for experiences back home. I’m
giving up memories of my little brothers growing up, San Francisco fun and
friends and family adventures. But of course I don’t think anyone every regrets
the trade.
· What is the most difficult thing to adjust to in
Madrid?
No beach!!!
And the Spanish system. So frustrating sometimes
because everything just seems so illogical and inefficient, but you just have
to take a deep breathe and accept it.
And the extreme temperatures! 110 in the summer and
snowing in the winter… This California girl is going to have serious problems
come winter.
· Any funny ‘whoopsies’ while adjusting to your new
life?
OHHH a ton! Most have to do with not speaking
Spanish very well.
My
first month I was washing my clothes, I kept telling my friends that the water
must be really harsh here because my clothes were not getting clean, they
smelled and felt really funny… well a month later when I learned a little more
Spanish, I was doing laundry, took a look at my ‘detergent’ and realized I had
been watching my clothes with only SOFTNER for a month!
· Saving graces (ie. things that made life abroad
easier?)
Hands down, Blog World. I can’t imagine doing this
and being happy without the support of blog world. Not only do I get to share
my adventures with others but I have also met friends here in Spain and Europe
through blogging! It’s crazy to think I never would have met those friends had it
not been for blogging.
· What is the biggest lesson you learned from your
time in Spain?
Stepping out of my comfort zone.
I like my comfort zone and my little bubble, like
most people. But when you come with no friends, no family, no significant other,
you are forced to step out of your comfort zone and go to intercambio meet up,
meet up with people you’ve met online (even though at first it seems really
weird) ask for things in a language you don’t know that well and learn to be
comfortable all on your own.
· If you had the chance to move elsewhere in the
world, where would you go and why?
Oh, that’s a hard one and a conversation I’ve had
with a lot of people. There is a huge difference between wanting to visit
somewhere and wanting to actually live somewhere. There are a lot of places I
would love to live like Amsterdam, Paris and Prague, but only during the Summer, Spring and Fall. I don’t
think I could handle the winters.
I would also love to live in Andalusia, Spain and San Sebastian.
· Do you have any advice for the newly expatriated?
Learn the language before you move! I
wish I had done this. It makes it so much easier to adjust to the culture, make
friends and get settled if you can communicate with people!
Patience and flexibility…
every single day
Don’t expect anything
to be like home. Just go ahead and assume everything will be more difficult,
customer service will be nonexistent, everything’s more expensive than you
think, and nothing tastes the way you expect. You won’t be disappointed and
then you will be pleasantly surprised when things are as you’d hope.
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Thank you Nicole!
I completely agree with your advice! I always prefer to be pleasantly surprised than disappointed!
You can check out more of Nicole's life in Spain and her travels all over Europe
here.